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Best sympathy and funeral flowers

41 of 85 flowers qualified

V Written by Editorial TeamEdited by Vladimir

The table calls it a tie: Carnation and Chrysanthemum share the crown at 100 and 100 of 100, a gap smaller than the data can honestly split.

A sympathy arrangement has one job: hold with dignity through services that run for days. Longevity carries the most weight here, then the quiet palette and dependable sourcing the occasion demands.

The picks

The flowers that won

The top score, plus the qualifier that asks least of you.

Carnation 100100CO-WINNERCO-WINNERYFG INDEX

Carnation ↗

Holds through the services: 10 to 34 · Sourceable on short notice: 12 months · Scent kept respectful: light

Flaws, not dealbreakers: toxic to cats

Deer: seldom damaged (Rutgers B) Not for cat households
100/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4510 to 34
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light
Chrysanthemum 100100CO-WINNERCO-WINNERYFG INDEX

Chrysanthemum ↗

Holds through the services: 16 to 18 · Sourceable on short notice: 12 months · Scent kept respectful: light

Flaws, not dealbreakers: asks for some seasonal upkeep; toxic to cats

Deer: sometimes eaten (Rutgers C) Not for cat households
100/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4516 to 18
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light

Also great

Close behind on points. Neither beats the winner overall, but each is the better answer in a garden the winner would not suit.

Alstroemeria 8787ALSO GREATALSO GREATYFG INDEX

Alstroemeria ↗

Holds through the services: 14 · Sourceable on short notice: 12 months · Scent kept respectful: no published rating

Flaws, not dealbreakers: asks for some seasonal upkeep; the show is short, about 2 months

Cat safe (listed non-toxic)
87/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4514
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful12 / 25no published rating
Anthurium 8787ALSO GREATALSO GREATYFG INDEX

Anthurium ↗

Holds through the services: 14 to 30 · Sourceable on short notice: 12 months · Scent kept respectful: no published rating

Flaws, not dealbreakers: asks for some seasonal upkeep; toxic to cats

Not for cat households
87/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4514 to 30
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful12 / 25no published rating
The protocol

How the score is built

3 rules, 100 points, no opinions. Every line reads one field of the table.

Holds through the services45 pointstypical vase life two weeks 45; ten days 34; a week 22; four days 11; less 5; no published vase data means no rank here Read from: days it holds in plain water.
Sourceable on short notice30 pointsflorists can source it year round 30; nine to eleven months 24; six to eight 16; five or fewer 7; window not yet verified 12 Read from: florist availability months.
Scent kept respectful25 pointslight scent 25; scentless 20; noticeable 15; room-filling, too much for a closed room 5; sources silent 12 Read from: how strong the scent is on record.

Not ranked here: not documented as a cut flower. The full method ↗

The leaderboard

The top ten

The 10 highest of 41 that qualified. Tap any score to open the lines behind it.

1Carnation
100/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4510 to 34
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light
1Chrysanthemum
100/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4516 to 18
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light
3Alstroemeria
87/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4514
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful12 / 25no published rating
3Anthurium
87/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services45 / 4514 to 30
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful12 / 25no published rating
5Calla Lily
77/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services22 / 454 to 14
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light
5Roses
77/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services22 / 455 to 10
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light
7Bird of Paradise
76/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services34 / 457 to 14
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful12 / 25no published rating
8Lily
69/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services34 / 459 to 14
Sourceable on short notice30 / 3012 months
Scent kept respectful5 / 25none, strong (worst of range)
9Campanula
66/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services34 / 457 to 14
Sourceable on short notice7 / 304 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light
9Lupine
66/ 100tap for the breakdown
Holds through the services34 / 459 to 11
Sourceable on short notice7 / 304 months
Scent kept respectful25 / 25light

Considered, not chosen

Not qualifying is a verdict too: the table simply says this question is not theirs.

no published data for holds through the servicesHydrangea macrophylla, Lavender, Irises and 22 more
not documented as a cut flowerBegonia, Canna Lily, Christmas Cactus and 16 more

The winner's badge

Generated by the ranking above, and re-scored whenever the table changes.

Carnation

The badge is generated by this ranking, not awarded by hand. When the table changes, it re-scores itself.

100100BEST SYMPATHY AND FUNERAL FLOWERSBEST SYMPATHY AND FUNERAL FLOWERSYFG INDEX · WINNER
How we rank

We keep one table of 85 flowers, with 25 documented facts each, drawn from university and extension sources. Every ranking is a published formula worth 100 points; tap any score and it unfolds into the lines that made it. A flower that does not fit the question is not scored lower: it is excluded, and the reason is shown. When the table changes, every score and stamp updates itself. The full method ↗

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