I want to grow it
82 flowers with zones, light, water, soil and bloom windows, and what
actually goes wrong
I want to send itWhat to send, and what to write
What does it mean108 meanings, honestly
What grows well together
Every pairing graded Proven, Partial or Folklore against a named universityThe flowers people look up most
Each opens a full guide: taxonomy, light, water, soil, zones, vase life, toxicity, pests, and photographs of the varieties worth growing.
Bigleaf HydrangeaHydrangea macrophylla
CarnationDianthus caryophyllus
ChrysanthemumChrysanthemum × morifolium
DaffodilsNarcissus spp.
DahliaDahlia pinnata
IrisIris
LavenderLavandula angustifolia
Lily (true lily)Lilium spp. (genus Lilium; includes Oriental hybrids, Asiatic hybrids, L. longiflorum, L. orientalis 'Stargazer')
MarigoldTagetes erecta
PeonyPaeonia lactiflora
PoppyPapaver
RanunculusRanunculus asiaticus
RoseRosa
SunflowerHelianthus annuus
TulipTulipa spp. (incl. Tulipa gesneriana hybrids)What is in bloom, month by month
Each arc is as long as the number of flowers open that month, worked out from their own bloom windows. Tap a month.
Every flower, photographed
Not stock arrangements: one plant, in its own light, at the size the page can actually show it.
RoseRosa
SunflowerHelianthus annuus
Shasta DaisyLeucanthemum x superbum
PoppyPapaver
Bigleaf HydrangeaHydrangea macrophylla
MarigoldTagetes erecta
Lily (true lily)Lilium spp.
TulipTulipa spp.
CarnationDianthus caryophyllus
DaffodilsNarcissus spp.
BellflowerCampanula spp.
PeonyPaeonia lactiflora
Cornflower (Bachelor's Button)Centaurea cyanus
ChrysanthemumChrysanthemum × morifoliumWhy this is not another flower listicle
Every claim on this site carries a verdict and a named source. Three examples out of the companion pages:
Draws aphids and flea beetles away from what you are growing. WSU Extension.
Works as a tilled-in cover crop over months, not as a few plants tucked in. UF/IFAS.
Repeated everywhere, with no controlled evidence behind it. WSU Extension.
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Find a flower by its colour
Eight libraries, each sorted honestly: what really is that colour, and what only reads that way on a label.
Pink59 in the library
Red42 in the library
Orange36 in the library
Yellow41 in the library
Blue29 in the library
Purple49 in the library
White69 in the library
Blackthe darkest there areWhat to send, and what to write
Valentine's DayRomantic blooms for your special someone
BirthdayCheerful arrangements to brighten their day
Mother's DayShow mom how much you care
AnniversaryCelebrate your love with timeless bloomsThe flower for every month of the year
Twelve full guides: what the month's flower is, what it has been taken to mean, how to grow it, and what to put on a card.
JanuaryCarnation, snowdrop
FebruaryViolet, primrose
MarchDaffodil, jonquil
AprilDaisy, sweet pea
MayLily of the valley, hawthorn
JuneRose, honeysuckle
JulyWater lily, larkspur
AugustGladiolus, poppy
SeptemberAster, morning glory
OctoberMarigold, cosmos
NovemberChrysanthemum, peony
DecemberNarcissus, hollyWhat flowers are taken to say
Twenty-four have a full guide; the rest carry an honest one-line reading. Where two sources disagree, both are shown.
Where these answers come from
Zones and toxicity from extension services and the ASPCA; meanings from Cornell and Iowa State. The institution is named on the page.
Where a botanic garden and a university differ, both readings appear. A single tidy answer would be the dishonest one.
The editorial team writes; Vladimir edits. Corrections are made on the page and said out loud.
What people ask before they plant or send
Marigold, zinnia, cosmos and sunflower germinate readily from seed, tolerate ordinary soil and flower the same season. All four are in the library with their zones and bloom windows.
24 of the 82 flowers here are listed pet-safe against the ASPCA database, including roses, snapdragons and gerbera daisies. Lilies are the dangerous one: every part is toxic to cats.
They are a tradition, not a code. The Victorian lists contradict each other and meanings shift by colour and country. Each meaning here separates today's reading from the old one and says where the two disagree.
Some of it. Nasturtium as a trap crop is proven; most good-neighbour charts are folklore repeated without evidence. Every pairing here is graded and the source named.
The wheel above answers it month by month, from each flower's own window. 59 are open in July; only 2 hold on through January.